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The Wedding Band Tradition: Then vs. Now


A wedding band is more than just a piece of jewellery—it’s a symbol of love, commitment, and an unbreakable bond. But have you ever wondered where this tradition started? While modern styles lean towards sleek designs and personalised touches, the history of wedding bands is rich with meaning and evolution. Let’s take a journey through time and explore how wedding bands have changed over the centuries, while still holding onto their timeless significance.


The Ancient Beginnings

The tradition of exchanging wedding rings dates back thousands of years. Ancient Egyptians are believed to have started the practice, seeing the ring’s circular shape as a representation of eternity—no beginning, no end. These early rings were often made from woven reeds or leather, later evolving into more durable materials like bone and ivory.

The concept of wearing the ring on the fourth finger of the left hand also originates from the Egyptians, who believed that a vein, the vena amoris or “vein of love,” ran directly from this finger to the heart. Though modern anatomy has debunked this, the romantic notion remains deeply ingrained in wedding traditions worldwide.


Roman Influence & the Rise of Gold

The Romans carried the wedding ring tradition forward, introducing the use of metal bands. Initially, iron was the material of choice, symbolizing strength and permanence. Over time, gold became the preferred metal, representing wealth and devotion. Roman rings were often engraved with intricate patterns or the couple’s initials, a practice that has carried into today’s custom of engraving meaningful messages inside wedding bands.

Gold Roman wedding ring from 3rd century. Source: Laings
Gold Roman wedding ring from 3rd century. Source: Laings

The Medieval & Renaissance Eras: The First Diamond Rings

During the Middle Ages, wedding bands became more ornate. The Gimmel ring was popular—a set of two interlocking rings worn separately during engagement and reunited during the wedding ceremony. Another beautiful tradition was the Posy ring, which featured romantic inscriptions or poetry engraved on the inside.

Renaissance Gimmel ring from17th Century, Germany. Source: Met Museum of Art
Renaissance Gimmel ring from17th Century, Germany. Source: Met Museum of Art

By the Renaissance period, diamonds made their first appearance in wedding jewellery. The first recorded diamond engagement ring was given in 1477 by Archduke Maximilian of Austria to Mary of Burgundy, setting a precedent for future royal and aristocratic engagements. This trend would later influence the modern love for diamond wedding bands and engagement rings.


Victorian & Edwardian Eras: Sentimental & Delicate Designs

In the 19th and early 20th centuries, wedding bands became even more sentimental. The Victorians, known for their love of symbolism, introduced rings adorned with gemstones, often arranged in floral motifs. Gold was the predominant metal, sometimes mixed with rose gold for a romantic touch.

Victorian Bands. Source: Lillicoco
Victorian Bands. Source: Lillicoco

Edwardian-era rings took on a more delicate and lace-like appearance, featuring filigree work and intricate engravings. Platinum also became a favoured choice due to its strength and ability to hold delicate details, much like today’s fine jewellery pieces.


20th Century: The Rise of Minimalism & Customisation

By the mid-20th century, wedding bands became simpler and more refined. The classic plain gold band became the norm for men, while women’s rings often featured a matching engagement set. The introduction of white gold as an alternative to platinum also gained popularity during this time.

Fast forward to the late 20th century, and we see a surge in customisation. Engravings, mixed metals and unique finishes became a way for couples to personalise their wedding bands. This shift set the stage for today’s bespoke jewellery movement, where individuality is key.

Mid 20th Century wedding band. Source: The Antique Jewellery Company
Mid 20th Century wedding band. Source: The Antique Jewellery Company

Wedding Bands Today: The Modern Evolution

Today’s wedding bands embrace both tradition and innovation. While classic styles remain timeless, many couples now seek designs that reflect their personalities and love stories. Some of the biggest trends include:


  • Stackable Bands – Pairing multiple thin rings for a layered look.

  • Alternative Metals – Platinum, titanium, and even black gold are gaining popularity.

  • Diamond & Gemstone Accents – Eternity bands with diamonds or coloured stones.

  • Organic & Textured Finishes – Hammered or matte finishes for a unique touch.

  • Custom Engravings – From meaningful phrases to fingerprints, couples are adding deeply personal elements.


Which Style is Right for You?

Whether you’re drawn to the timeless elegance of a gold band or the modern edge of platinum, the perfect wedding band is one that holds meaning for you. The evolution of wedding rings over centuries proves that styles may change, but the sentiment remains the same—celebrating love, commitment, and the start of a new chapter.


For those seeking a completely unique ring, bespoke wedding bands offer the ultimate in craftsmanship and personalisation. At Vera McCullough Jewellery, we specialise in creating rings that not only symbolise love but also reflect the essence of the couple wearing them.


Would you like to explore ready-to-wear bespoke wedding bands? Browse our collection here!


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